Liking someone can creep them out?

   Has it ever occurred to you that when you fall for someone and actually find a way to let them know, they will... well, do the opposite and even give you the weird stare? Well, let me assure you, that is a pretty normal situation and does happen quite often.

Why?

Well, very often in life it is much easier to understand such situation if you imagine yourself into it. Wait, what? Yes! Exactly, imagine yourself into this very same situation. You go on with your day to day life, and at some point you start to realize that someone is having a crush on you. They stare at you for a prolonged period of time, try their best to spend more time with you or even quite the opposite - start acting weirdly strange when around you. In any case, if that was a person that you, yourself, liked quite a lot, then great - you will most likely do something to actually move things forward. But what if you don't "feel" that way for them? You retreat and start avoiding them, or give them the dull stare in order to show non-verbally, that you are not all that too much interested.

So, what to do?

What to do if the one you like is not responding, and even distancing themselves or giving you the blank stare? Simply. Again - imaging yourself into the situation. What can someone who likes you (and you don't, at least, yet, like them back) do in order to spend more time with you? Yes, that's it. They can start acting a lot more casual. And you do the same. Become more casual! Don't stare, don't say anything differently as compared to how you would say it to any other friend. Don't go out of your way to help, even if it's for the smallest thing. Basically, act exactly as you would with an old friend who you know well - just be... normal. And they will slowly start to feel better in your company, which - in turn - will give both of you a chance to actually come closer together. Voila!